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Talking to your child and others about a bump to the head

Reassure your child or teenager to help them explain any symptoms you or their teacher should know about.

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Symptom checker

Talking to younger children

Talking to older children and teenagers

Talking to others (including education staff)

 

Many families and schools may use the word ‘concussion’ or ‘mild concussion’ following a bump to the head.

Essentially this is a ‘mild brain injury’, but this wording may sound scary to children, parents and teachers. 

As a result of the bump your child might find it difficult to tell you how they are feeling. See our Symptom checker below to understand some of the ways your child may be affected.

Symptom checker

Click on a symptom below for a full description.

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Fatigue

Click to understand the difference between fatigue and tiredness.

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Feeling confused

Learn more about how child may struggle to take in information.

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Difficulties with language and communication

Concussion may affect your child's communication - click to learn more.

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Memory loss

Understand possible memory issues following a bump.

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Emotions

Read about changes to behaviour or mood.

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Physical difficulties

Click to understand more about physical symptoms.

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Fatigue

  • - A feeling of constant tiredness or weakness; more than feeling sleepy or drowsy
  • - Concentrating may be difficult
  • - May be irritable with friends or family
  • - May struggle to stay awake, or may daydream
  • - May not want to participate in any activities.

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Feeling confused

  • - May find it hard to read a story from start to finish – and reading out loud may be difficult.
  • - It may be difficult to focus on a conversation or task if there are other distractions.
  • - May have difficulties in listening to other people, particularly if they are completing another task, such as reading or writing, at the same time.
  • - May be slower, or may struggle, to take in and process information.
     

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Difficulties with language and communication

  • - May find it hard to organise words into sentences, start a conversation, or follow the unspoken ‘rules’ of conversation, such as taking turns or staying on the same topic.
  • - May get muddled when they are trying to follow someone else’s conversation. Or they may understand what others are saying perfectly well, but might struggle to express what they would like to say.
  • - May be very quiet or non-verbal. It’s important to remember that communication doesn’t only mean speaking and some children may use eye contact, gesture or expression to get their message across.
     

Frustrated child

Memory loss

  • - May find it difficult to recall what they did the day or week before
  • - May find it difficult to retain instructions
  • - May forget names of friends or family.
     

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Emotions

  • - May be irritable or frustrated by noise or interruptions
  • - May make inappropriate or tactless remarks or laugh inappropriately
  • - May feel low in mood or cry more easily than usual.
     

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Physical difficulties

  • - Sickness
  • - Balance
  • - Headaches and/or
  • - Nausea.

Talking to younger children

If your child is aware of their symptoms, like dizziness or confusion, it may help to explain to your child that this is because they bumped their head. For younger children you can reassure them by explaining:

Over the next few days, or perhaps even longer, you need to take it easy as you bumped your head. Let me know how you’re feeling – and if you feel any better or start to feel worse.” 

Tim Tron cover

If your child has time off school you may want to order our book Heads Up, Tim-Tron, and/or listen to the audio version. This book tells the story of a young robot whose life changes after he has a bump on the head.
 

Talking to older children and teenagers

If your child is nearing the end of primary school or is at secondary school, it is helpful to explain to them how they may feel and things to be aware of.

You can explain to your child:

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Make time to rest

You are off school to help your recovery so you need to rest. For the next 1-2 days, you won’t be able to do any contact sport or excessive physical activity. Your brain as well as your body needs to rest so it is important to keep screen time to a minimum and take regular breaks.

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Tell someone if you don’t feel right

If you feel different to usual, or find it difficult to concentrate, do not push yourself and tell someone so they can help you.

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Go back to school/college and activities gradually

You don’t have to wait until you feel completely better before you go back to school, in fact doing some familiar activities can help you recover, but you need to take it easier when you do return. You might need longer breaks or shorter days. If school and activities make you feel worse, tell someone and explain that you need to drop out of these activities. 

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Brain 101: What’s a concussion

This film (by Orcas) provides a clear explanation of concussion for teenagers, and how to manage the symptoms. While it is based on concussion in sports, it is still relevant to all concussion.

Talking to others (including education staff)

It’s really important to inform those around the child that they have had an injury. This includes school staff and staff at the social clubs and activities that your child attends. 

You may use the word ‘concussion’ and explain that you are monitoring symptoms over the coming days and weeks. If that person regularly spends time with your child, you can point them to resources that they might find helpful, such as this website. Read our section on Informing schools and colleges

Seek Medical Advice

If your child has a head injury we recommend seeking medical advice as soon as possible after the injury (call 111, your GP or in an emergency 999).

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Contact our specialists

Looking for further advice and support? If your child’s symptoms persist longer than six weeks and you would like support from one of our specialists, contact our virtual ABI team.